Soul Sanctuary

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THE PERFECT DAY

Who are you?

Who have you become?

Who tells you what you are?

And what you can be?

Will your past ever be over?

Will you ever be able to let go?

What would it look like if you said, “No”

to everything

and everyone

that would try to limit you?

What would a day look like if you became your authentic self?

What would one day of stillness, acceptance and sacredness look like?

“Innocence” ~ by Avril Lavigne © *

Waking up I see that everything is ok

The first time in my life

And now it's so great

Slowing down

I look around and I am so amazed

I think about the little things that make life great

I wouldn't change a thing about it

This is the best feeling

This innocence is brilliant

I hope that it will stay

This moment is perfect

Please don't go away

I need you now

And I'll hold on to it

Don't you let it pass you by

I found a place so safe

Not a single tear

The first time in my life and now it's so clear

Feel calm

I belong

I'm so happy here

It's so strong

And now I let myself be sincere

I wouldn't change a thing about it

This is the best feeling

It's a state of bliss

You think you're dreaming

It's the happiness inside that you're feeling

It's so beautiful it makes you wanna cry

It's a state of bliss

You think you're dreaming

It's the happiness inside that you're feeling

It's so beautiful it makes you wanna cry

This innocence is brilliant

It makes you want to cry

This innocence is brilliance

Please don't go away

Cause I need you now

And I'll hold on to it

Don't you let it pass you by

Think of all of the messages you have been given in your life.

Now, think of only the positive messages.

The messages that told you that you were special.

That you were loved.

That there was only one person in the world wide world just like you.

Messages - that told you that you were wonderful just the way that you are.

Messages - that said that you belonged.

I dream for you – a perfect day.

You deserve it because you are the very imagination of the divine.

“Piece of It All” ~ by Jann Arden © *

right now somebody loves you

right now somebody dreams about you

right now somebody needs you

right now somebody is proud of you

proud of you

right now somebody is calling your name

right now somebody is hoping you’re well

right now somebody is feeling your shame

right now somebody cares if you live

right now somebody hears you

right now somebody knows who you are

right now someone is praying for you

right now someone believes in your heart

right now somebody wants to be your friend

right now somebody is thinking about you

right now someone is wondering where you are

right now you are a piece of it all

a piece of it all

you are a piece of it all

Imagine your “perfect” day.

Really.

Take a moment, now.

Close your eyes and envision it, in every detail.

“A Perfect Day” ~ by Jann Arden, Richards/Russell Broom © *

You can do it

I know you can

I know you will

You can make it

I know you can get up the hill

You can be anyone you want

Just close your eyes

You can picture a perfect day inside your mind

You’ve gotta pull your head up

Stand your ground and face it all

You’ve gotta hold your heart out to the universe

If you believe in who you are my shining star

All you weary

All of you on your own

Listen clearly

Follow your voice back home

All you broken

All of you without love

You’ll be fine

You’ll see when the morning comes

You’ve gotta hold your head up

Throw your shoulders through the wall

You’ve gotta count your blessings

Count your lucky days

You’ll never know unless you try

Until you risk it all

If you believe in who you are my shining star

All you weary

All of you on your own

Listen clearly

Follow your voice back home

All you broken

All of you without love

You’ll be fine

You’ll see when the morning comes

All you weary

All of you on your own

Listen clearly

Follow your voice back home

All you broken, all of you without love

You’ll be fine

Wishing you a perfect day.

*Please note that these lyrics are used for educational purposes only.

2011-12-23T21:42:00.001-08:00

CHRISTMAS EVE MEMORIES

RIU RIU CHIU

I have a sparkling visceral memory of my tenth Christmas Eve. My Mom and Dad and I had just come home from the snowy evening’s Candlelight Church Service (my absolute favorite service of the year)!

I remember tearing downstairs, two steps at a time, JUST in time to switch on the TV – and agonizing as it warmed up to receive the signal – on the floor in my brand new neon practically glow in the dark pink pleated mini dress with WHITE fishnet (real) stockings no less!! to watch The Monkees’ Christmas Special.

I loved The Monkees Show. It was "out of the box", fun loving, silly, carefree and sweet. I expected that this Holiday program would deliver the same that night.

But that night something drew me into the centre of the known world. I heard something more Holy, and more mystical than anything I had heard at church just an half an hour before.

I was moved desperately and deeply to tears when I heard - for the first time in my life - the 17th century carol, “Riu Chiu”, sung in 4 part harmony a capella by my beloved boy band (…we too had boy bands - even in 1967).

In my shocking pink mini dress, sprawled on my parent’s basement floor, I taped this beautiful song with my miniature reel-to-reel tape recorder, with my knees akimbo leaning on my elbows holding the old style microphone.

I had no idea what was being sung. I didn’t know the language at all, not one word - but the SOUNDS they were making! The melodic conversations tumbled over one another like cashmere wool rolled into soft balls. Time was arrested. The snowflakes flew up against basement window’s black night sky. It was a Sacred stillness, a mystical moment that has never left me. Its resonance has stayed with me for 40 years. No exaggeration.

By complete chance I happened to find this very sublime moment captured sailing in the ether, floating smoothly like a wide satin red prayer flag after all these years…

Imagine that it’s Christmas Eve and YOU are ten years old…waiting…waiting…

http://wn.com/Riu_Riu_Chiu

The Monkees singing, “Riu Chiu” (c. 1967) ©

Arranged and adapted by H. Diltz, C. Douglas, C. Faryer and J. Yester.

What are YOUR most profound Holiday memories?

What songs, smells, sounds take YOU back to the innocence of wonder?

What moment would YOU love to relive?

And if you could, how would that make you feel?

Joy to the World.

Peace is WITH YOU.

Ten...again...

Vivian

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http://wn.com/Riu_Riu_Chiu

Roaring, roaring river,

The riverbank protects it,

As God kept the wolf from our lamb

The rabid wolf tried to bite her

But God Almighty knew how to defend her

He wished to create her impervious to sin

Nor was this maid to embody original sin

He who's now begotten

is our mighty Monarch Christ,

our Holy Father, in human flesh embodied

He has brought atonement by being born so humble

Though He is immortal, as mortal was created

A thousand singing herons

I saw passing,

Flying overhead, sounding

A thousand voices

Exulting, "Glory be in the heavens,

and peace on earth,

for Jesus has been born."

http://www.traditioninaction.org/religious/p005rpRiuRiu.htm

Joy to the World.

2011-12-08T07:28:00.000-08:00

Comfort Service

Jerrett’s Funeral Home, Vaughan Chapel

Thursday December 1st, 2011

at 7:00 p.m.

Director, Blake Brooks

Music, Alex Cheung

Reflection, Vivian Carter

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For some, the glittering artificiality of electric lights

Only pierces the haunted shadows of lost love

Or worse, the loss of self.

Hold on.

Falling backwards deep into the frozen flakes of snow

Throwing your arms up in a blessing

You sweep your limbs close and away

Until you leave - in your place

An impression of angelic joy.

Tonight, in the cold, dark, winter’s snow

We will remember our loved-ones

And discover the snow angels that

They have left behind...

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In this time of metallic tinsel and canned Christmas music, of artificial trees and artificial smiles, of presents and pressing engagements, we find that we are struggling with deep, deep loss. This time of the year is different for us now and we fear it might never, ever be the same. Christmas lights don’t bring us joy and the happiness that surrounds us, seems unfamiliar.

But there is a mystery in the winter; there is the beauty of the snow. Each snowflake is a miracle. Each tiny snowflake is fragile and dazzling. Each snowflake sparkles in the sunshine and twinkles with colour in the glow of the Christmas lights. Each snowflake is different from all of the other snowflakes. They huddle together to make puffy clouds of sparkling powder for us to play with.

The mystery of grief is like this. Our grief for our loved-ones is different and fragile, too. Sometimes our memories bring colour and light into our lives. At other times, we feel the icy breath of reality stop us in our tracks. We are like the snowflakes in this cold time – joining together to make something beautiful. And each of our loved-ones are just like the snow crystals...we can see them sparkle but when we try to hold them too tightly they melt away.

So, we must play with the memory of them, the lessons we have learned and the memories they have left us and throw ourselves deeply into the snow drifts of love and loss and make snow angels – letting the snowflakes tickle our noses and allow the snowdrifts to cradle our souls. Memories are the impressions of life. Snow angels are the impressions of souls.

Tonight, we remember. We remember our mothers, our aunts, our sisters, our daughters, our grandmothers, our wives, our best friends, our co-workers, our neighbours, our babies, our stillborns, our toddlers, our teenagers, our fathers, our uncles, our grandfathers, our sons, our brothers, our husbands, our buddies, our mentors, our confidents, our inside jokes, our favorite meals, our struggles and our triumphs, our holiday traditions, we remember our loved-ones. We remember our snow angels.

As this calendar year draws to its end and we are meant to reflect upon its gracious abundance.

What angels are left in the snow for you?

What do they look like?

Who made them?

Just know that when the snow has melted,

The angels will still be there.

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To love and be loved

Is to feel the sun

From both sides.

David Viscott

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In the rising of the sun and in its going down

We will remember you.

In the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter

We will remember you.

In the opening of buds and in the rebirth of spring

We will remember you.

In the blueness of the sky and in the warmth of summer

We will remember you.

In the rustling of leaves and in the beauty of autumn

We will remember you.

In the beginning of the year and when it ends

We will remember you.

When we are weary and in need of strength

We will remember you.

When we are lost and sick at heart

We will remember you.

When we have joys we yearn to share

We will remember you.

Yes, we will remember you.

So long as we live, you shall live,

For you are a part of us. AMEN.

2011-11-23T11:01:00.000-08:00

A Season of Waiting

Vivian Carter, November 26, 2011

Crieff Hills Retreat Centre

THE PERPETUAL PRAYER BOOK (A booklet cut into three sections – horizontally - with three parts to a prayer – one part on each third of each page.)

SPIRIT OF WAITING - LOCATOR WHEEL (Draw a circle. Draw pie slices like spokes in a wheel. In the slices, write or draw the things that you are waiting for in life.)

ONE SYLLABLE WORD – POEMS (Using only one syllable words write a sentence describing your own circumstances.)

FINGER LABYRINTH (Draw your own! Look on the Internet for many different patterns.) http://www.yfc.co.uk/labyrinth/online.html# http://www.lostinwonder.org.uk/labyrinth.htm

DEFINITION VISION (If we were able to look up your name in the dictionary what would it say? How would you want to be defined?)

“SmoKe and SaLt” A Literary Theological Art Journal (Using this resource as a reflective tool, ask how might I use art, photography, or the written word to reflect spiritually?)

Suggested Recourses - Internet

“1000 Awesome Things” - http://1000awesomethings.com/

“Come Sit By My Fire” Blog - http://comesitbymyfire.blogspot.com/

“Do Nothing for Two Minutes” - http://www.donothingfor2minutes.com/

Don Shields’ Blog, “Observations of Life ~ Seeing Soulfully”

Experiencing life through the lens of a Markham Chaplain’s digital camera and his observations in the form of poems and prose. Image and reflection at its spiritual best!

http://e-shields.blogspot.com/

“Follow Your Bliss” Compass (interactive) - http://www.oneletterwords.com/bliss/

iSerenity – Online relaxation sound streaming - http://www.iserenity.com/environments/

Joyce Rupp, “The Circle of Life” and “The Cosmic Dance” - http://www.joycerupp.com/

Joyce Rupp, “A Prayer to Be Free From Tizzies” -http://www.joycerupp.com/ordinary.html#tizzies

Joyce Rupp, “The Perfect Cup” - http://www.joycerupp.com/cupofourlife.html

Life Interview Questions - http://www.legacyproject.org/guides/lifeintquestions.pdf

Macrina Wiederkehr’s Blog. http://www.stscho.org/macrina-wiederkehr/

Spiritual Direction with Vivian Carter

http://spiritualdirectionwithviviancarter.blogspot.com/

SmoKe and SaLt: lyrical art and dappled shadows, literary art journal

http://smokeandsalt.blogspot.com/

Books

“This is Not a Book”, by Keri Smith, Penguin Group (U.S.A.), 2009

“Fabulous Friendship Festival”, by SARK, Three Rivers Press: New York, 2007

“No Death, No Fear”, by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 2002

Prayer and Practice

“Praying Our Goodbyes”, by Joyce Rupp, Ave Maria Press, Notre Dame: Indiana, 1988

“The Flowering of the Soul: A Book of Prayers by Women”, edited by Lucinda Vardey

“Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises”, by Anthony de Mello, Image – Doubleday: New York, 1986

2011-11-23T07:47:00.000-08:00

Opening to the Heart of Autumn

Lynne P. McNelly and Vivian Carter, October 30, 2011

Celeste Shirley, Host

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Opening to the Heart of Autumn

6 Word Memoirs

Here now. Warm, relaxed, happy. Cocooned. A.S.

Finally retired to pursue life’s adventure. C. G.

Awakening adventurer accepting – now- softening woman. J.C.

Intuitive Healer

Seakes Adventure

Planet Earth

L.R. Mc.

Loving mother released to start anew. M.D.

Pilgrim in a new chapter of life. P.R.

Here today, gone tomorrow, happy eternal. E. H.

Adventurer on precipice of new journey. M. D.

Looking forward to compassionate, loving caregiving. S. T.

Calmer, slower, being, being fed, hopeful. Anon.

Tired yogi at peace, relaxed, inspired. K.J.W.

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2011-10-29T10:24:00.001-07:00

Opening to the Heart of Autumn

Lynne P. McNelly and Vivian Carter, October 30, 2011

Celeste Shirley, Host

THE PERPETUAL PRAYER BOOK (A booklet cut into three sections – horizontally - with three parts to a prayer – one part on each third of each page.)

SPIRIT LOCATOR WHEEL (Draw a circle. Draw pie slices like spokes in a wheel. In the slices write or draw the places you find joy in life.)

CONSOLATION ~ DESOLATION BAG (Have a small mesh or see-through bag with a light coloured stone and a dark coloured stone. When contemplating a question ask yourself: Will this bring me Consolation [the light stone]? Or, Will it bring me Desolation [the dark stone]?)

8. ONE SYLLABLE WORD – POEMS (Using only one syllable words write a sentence describing your own circumstances.)

9. SIX WORD MEMOIRS (Using only six words explain where you are in your journey.) http://www.smithmag.net/sixwords/

DRAWING WITH WORDS (Instead of line drawing, use cursive writing to “draw”. Try drawing a heart or trace your hand with words.)

FINGER LABYRINTH (Draw your own! Look on the Internet for many different patterns.) http://www.yfc.co.uk/labyrinth/online.html# http://www.lostinwonder.org.uk/labyrinth.htm

DEFINITION VISION (If we were able to look up your name in the dictionary what would it say? How would you want to be defined?)

“SmoKe and SaLt” A Literary Theological Art Journal (Using this resource as a reflective tool, ask how might I use art, photography, or the written word to reflect spiritually?)

Suggested Recourses - Internet

“1000 Awesome Things” - http://1000awesomethings.com/

“Before I die”...Chalkboard - http://design-milk.com/before-i-die-by-candy-chang/

The Diversity Calendar - http://www3.kumc.edu/diversity/november.html

“Do Nothing for Two Minutes” - http://www.donothingfor2minutes.com/

“Follow Your Bliss” Compass (interactive) - http://www.oneletterwords.com/bliss/

Joyce Rupp, “The Circle of Life” and “The Cosmic Dance” - http://www.joycerupp.com/

Keri Smith (creative explorations) - http://www.kerismith.com/

“Observations of Life ~ Seeing Soulfully” Blog

Experiencing life through the lens of a Markham Chaplain’s digital camera and his observations in the form of poems and prose. Image and reflection at its spiritual best!

http://e-shields.blogspot.com/

SARK (creative explorations) - http://www.planetsark.com/

Spiritual Direction with Vivian Carter

http://spiritualdirectionwithviviancarter.blogspot.com/

SmoKe and SaLt: lyrical art and dappled shadows, literary art journal

http://smokeandsalt.blogspot.com/

The Yoga House, Celeste Shirley - http://www.theyogahouse.ca/index.html

“Zen Habits” Breathe (living life with less) - http://zenhabits.net/archives/

Books

“This is Not a Book”, by Keri Smith, Penguin Group (U.S.A.), 2009

“Fabulous Friendship Festival”, by SARK, Three Rivers Press: New York, 2007

“No Death, No Fear”, by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 2002

Prayer and Practice

“Praying Our Goodbyes”, by Joyce Rupp, Ave Maria Press, Notre Dame: Indiana, 1988

“The Flowering of the Soul: A Book of Prayers by Women”, edited by Lucinda Vardey

“Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises”, by Anthony de Mello, Image – Doubleday: New York, 1986

2011-09-29T19:44:00.000-07:00

Draw it, Paint it!

Using artwork

to deepen and express our faith

Throughout all 2,000 years of Christian history, art has served three purposes:

To deepen our faith

To express our faith and ultimately

To put our faith into action.

CHILDREN

Children are continually learning to differentiate themselves from their siblings, their parents and their teachers. We must support them as they navigate their individual faith journeys. Children need to be reassured and encouraged in their understanding of God, Jesus and the Spirit.

They need to feel safe and protected in the communities in which they live and play.

Older children are more aware of the world around them. They may want to choose “greener” art projects. Try to be as environmentally conscious as possible with your materials and the disposal of the leftovers. Ask for help in sourcing your art supplies from the congregation!

If you have the space, Art Zones can be a helpful way to organize your Arts and Crafts in church.

Children are naturally curious, inventive, creative and imaginative! Allow them to express themselves while keeping a safe environment for their creative and artistic expressions.

Children’s art projects can be both solitary as well as collaborative.

Children enjoy praise and affirmation so offer them the encouragement that they need.

Art Theme Ideas in the Church

All arts and craft projects in the church can be an expression of any number of different themes! Here are just some ideas.

§ The liturgical year (Advent, Christmas, Epiphany, Ash Wednesday/Lent/Holy Week, Easter, Pentecost, Ordinary Time).

§ Art that helps to express or enliven storytelling.

§ Art that helps to express or enliven a Biblical lesson.

§ Larger themes such as Love, Sharing, Helping or Friendship.

§ The different names of Christ (Trinity, Gardener, Treasure, Prince of Peace, Servant, Waiting Father, Healer, Fisherman, Carpenter, Teacher, “Anam Cara” or Soul Friend, Living Water, Prophet, Friend of Children, Eternal Life, Bread and Wine or Host, Light of the World, Comforter, Alpha and Omega or the Beginning and the End).

What can you come up with?

ART IDEAS FOR CHILDREN

1. CARTOONING (Handout)

2. RUBBINGS (Rubbing a pencil on a paper over top of an item.)

3. 10-MINUTE “CROSS” PAINTINGS (On paper or T-shirts, make a cross with masking tape and colour the negative space, then peel the tape away.)

4. FINGERPRINT ART (Using Bingo Dabbers.)

5. SENDING HUGS (Fabric Scarves made out of traced handprints.)

6. “I AM A BEAUTIFUL CHILD OF GOD” POSTER

YOUTH

Youth need to be heard, acknowledged and included - especially in the church community!

At this stage in their lives, Youth are integrating all that they have learned growing up and are now ready to challenge and question the discrepancies they may encounter in their faith community. Youth are the “prophets” of the Christian community. They may see a disconnection between what Jesus “teaches us” and what we - as a community - do, in our faith practices. Do not be surprised if they call us to account for our actions! Youth believe in social justice. Ask them what they are passionate about.

Youth need to speak, move, engage and express themselves. Give them space!

Youth will do individual projects from time to time but generally they prefer to do things together as a group. Remember that relationships are the most important thing for Youth.

Youth are extremely comfortable with technology. Consider using video, digital photography, Photoshop, Mp3 music recordings of their own music, Blogs, and YouTube as inspirations for Youth creative projects.

Just a note - please don’t call them “young people”. They don’t call others “old people.”

Youth often feel judged harshly by certain members of the congregation. Encourage people to see beyond Youth’s appearances such as their clothes, their hair, their tattoos, their piercings and their make-up. Listen to them. Hear what they have to SAY. Ask them what they really feel about things and that them answer with an open mind.

Feed them - spiritually AS WELL AS physically! Youth need to eat!

If we respect Youth as the Emerging Adults that they are, they will feel safe enough to share their joys and concerns with the greater community.

Consider having a Youth Impact Moment in the service giving them a voice using their creative or documentary videos, poetry, art or drama.

We can learn so much from the Youth! Continue to help to support them, in as many ways as you can!

ART IDEAS FOR YOUTH

1. THE PERPETUAL PRAYER BOOK (A booklet cut into three sections – horizontally - with three parts to a prayer – one part on each third of each page.)

2. SPIRIT LOCATOR WHEEL (Draw a circle. Draw pie slices like spokes in a wheel. In the slices write or draw the places you find Joy in life.)

3. CONSOLATION ~ DESOLATION BAG (Have a small mesh or see-through bag with a light coloured stone and a dark coloured stone. When contemplating a question ask yourself: Will this bring me Consolation [the light stone]? Or, Will it bring me Desolation [the dark stone]?)

4. DIGITAL HAIKU (Have the Youth take digital photos of what is on their minds and have the write an Haiku to go with them. Have them put up their artwork in the church to initiate discussion.)

5. PRAYER FLAGS (Using large Post-It notes or cloth have the Youth write down their joys and concerns and attach the prayers to a string. Hang the Prayer Flags up in the church.)

6. PRAYER BEADS (Make four knots spaced about two inches apart on a string or a shoelace. Use the ACTS acronym [adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication or intersession] to help with the prayer practice. Instead of knots, beads can be used.)

7. VIDEO DOCUMENTARIES (Have the Youth ask each other - or the members of the congregation - if they wouldn’t mind answering a few questions such as: Who is God for you? Where do you find God?)

8. ONE SYLLABLE WORD – POEMS (Using only one syllable words write a sentence describing their own circumstances.)

9. SIX WORD MEMOIRS (Using only six words have them explain where they are in their faith journey.)

10. “BOOK OF AWESOME” TICKETS FOR THE PEWS (Have them write on a piece of paper what is “awesome” for them about God. Place the papers in the pews for people to take home to reflect upon.)

ADULTS

Adults maybe facing profound challenges at home, at work and in their community. They may be coping with elder parent care issues as well as concerns for their younger or mature children. Art and creative work that allows Adults to explore the complexities and joys of life are often the most meaningful.

Adults can be reflective or meditative about their spiritual lives. Poetry and guided meditations in a suitably creative and comfortable setting can help to facilitate the Adult’s faith journey.

All Adults have their own unique and complex theology. Each person’s theology is formulated by a person’s own unique life-experiences (and their responses to them) along with whatever Christian Education they were offered throughout their lives.

Some Adults may be more comfortable with a “literal” approach to art and creativity whereas others might be more at home with symbolic or “abstract” expressions of their faith. All Adults will have their own approach towards artistic expression. It is important to affirm all people’s faith journeys.

Some Adults may be looking to gauge their individual circumstances and situations amongst their peers.

It is possible that some Adults maybe reticent to try new things especially when it comes to creative expression.

Some Adults have never been “told” that they can question their childhood beliefs. This can be unsettling for some. They may not want to “fail” or be singled out as foolish. Allow for self-direction. Understand that - just like Children and Youth - each Adult will have her or his own learning style.

Allow people to “tell their own stories” in their art expressions. There are no “right” or “wrong” expressions of a person’s faith journey. It is what it is.

Tread lightly. Ask lots of questions. Check in. Go slow.

ART IDEAS FOR ADULTS

1. THE “MOUSE TAILS” MINISTRY (Using string or wool braid 6 inch “tails”. Give these tokens of appreciation and recognition to all of those quiet “church mice”, who might otherwise go un-noticed!)

2. NEW LYRICS OLD TUNES

3. DRAWING WITH WORDS (Instead of line drawing, use cursive writing to “draw. Try drawing a heart or a cross with words.)

4. FINGER LABYRINTH (Draw your own! Look on the Internet for many different patterns.)

5. HANDMADE “COUPONS OF SUPPORT” TO OFFER THE YOUTH AND CHILDREN (Write down what you would be willing to do for the Children and the Youth Group as a whole or individually. Ideas such as: I will make Pizza! I promise to try not to judge you! This coupon invites you to a meeting of the ____ Committee where we would appreciate your feedback! I will buy soap and sponges for your Car Wash Fund-Raiser! Just make sure that you sign your name and follow through!)

6. DEFINITION VISION (If we were able to look up your name in the dictionary what would it say? How would you want to be defined?)

7. “SmoKe and SaLt” A Literary Theological Art Journal (Using this resource as a reflective tool, ask your group, how might I use art, photography, or the written word to deepen my faith?)

Just a note: Many of these Art Ideas for Children, Youth and Adults are interchangeable with simple (age appropriate) modifications.

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You are cordially invited to join

Lynne & Vivian

For a Restorative Day Retreat

Opening to the Heart of Autumn

It is within a calm and relaxed state of mind & body that we flow most easily with life’s changes and challenges. Come join us as we spend the day together experiencing ways to balance and empower our daily lives through the practice of Yoga, Pranayama, deep relaxation and Meditation.

The day will include: a yoga class, yoga nidra (relaxation) followed by a potluck lunch, a walk in the ravine (optional), afternoon meditation and time for tea and sharing.

Sunday, October 30^th – 10AM – 5 PM

Cost: $75

Early bird special $65 (if you register before Oct 4^th).

*Located in a beautiful Yoga Sanctuary set in nature

(Easy access to DVP and close to Coxwell Subway station in the east end of Toronto)

Wear comfortable clothing, Mats, cushions and blankets are provided.

Bring a water bottle and walking shoes for ravine walk, plus a contribution to potluck lunch.

Lynne P. McNelly is a certified Kripalu Yoga teacher. Her caring approach creates a comfortable environment for ALL levels of students. She has taught extensively for the last 19 years with many community organizations and with private classes, with students aged from 3-90 years young.

Vivian Carter, BFA, M DIV, Dip Th, is a meditative writer, artist, spiritual guide and family coach. Vivian is a well-loved guide and presenter, whose practical ideas, wealth of experience and ability to dramatize her topic make her presentations both valuable and enjoyable.

Bring love, be brave, ask questions, be You!

To register please email me directly thevicar@rogers.com

*Address of location and map will be given upon registering.

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Draw it, Paint it!

Using artwork

to deepen and express our faith!

YOUTH

Youth are the prophets of the Christian community. They see hypocrisy in the world (and even in the church sometimes) and they feel compelled to express their feelings about this disconnect, just as Jesus did. You may find, that sometimes, Youth have intense emotions, opinions and fears. They feel things deeply and personally. Using art is an excellent way for Youth to express their beliefs as well as to work out their feelings of disappointment and of joy about their world, their community and their friends and loved ones. Always keep in mind that Youth are facing profound experiences that can be raw and even life altering. Relationships, school, sex, drinking, smoking, drugs, bullying, stress, eating disorders, body image, suicide, pregnancy, work, social justice, identity, vulnerability, power and family dynamics are the most important issues that they will face every day. Endeavour to give them a safe space wherein they can explore the “bigger” questions of life: Who am I? What does this all mean? How do I fit in? Why do people die? Can anybody see me? Where is God, anyway? Who is Jesus to me? Youth need to move, build and create collectively, as well as individually. They won’t want to sit too long while they are creating. Youth respond to experiences where they engage fully in their community (both locally and globally) to make a meaningful difference. They want to be in the world and hold a mirror up to it. Their art will speak from their hearts. And most importantly, their art will ask the viewer to respond. A supportive, reflective and encouraging conversation with the church community would be life-givingl! Allow the Youth a “voice” through their art. Listen to them!

Consider putting aside a space for a Youth Art Centre for their finished work
Digital art projects – finding God with a digital camera and photo shop
Six Word Memoir

http://www.smithmag.net/sixwords/

Reflecting Pool
Meditation Station in the Youth Room or another sport in the church
Collages
Unexpected faces of Jesus

http://www.rejesus.co.uk/site/module/faces_of_jesus/

Post-it Note - Patch Work Quilts
Painting a mural in the church / in the community
Handmade Prophet Post Cards * (see ‘Post Secret’, below)
Building a Sacred Space in the Youth Room
Planting a Peace Garden at the church / in the community
“Through the Eyes of God” photo exploration
Tibetan Prayer Flags
Creating T-Shirts
Stained Glass Gospel Posters
Making banners, pulpit falls, communion table covers
Interactive Prayer Book
Styrofoam / Potato Printing
Photo transfer printing for t-shirts or prayer flags
Mosaic
Making a permanent Labyrinth outdoors or making personalized ones http://allthingslabyrinth.com/

http://www.labyrinthnetwork.ca/

Circle Painting and Mandalas

http://www.circlepainting.org/

Chalk Board with a different question each week allowing the Youth to respond

http://design-milk.com/before-i-die-by-candy-chang/

SUGGESTED RESOURCES - Youth

* “Post Secret” is an ongoing art project started by Frank Warren in 2005, where people mail anonymously personalized, handmade post cards of their “secrets” to the installation. Confessions on Life, Death, & God, by Frank Warren, HarperCollins: New York, 2009. Warning: contents may be offensive to some viewers.

“Observations of Life ~ Seeing Soulfully” Blog

Experiencing life through the lens of a Markham Chaplain’s digital camera and his observations in the form of poems and prose. Image and reflection at its spiritual best!

http://e-shields.blogspot.com/

SUGGESTED RESOURCES - Internet

Scripture

http://bible.oremus.org/

http://abbeyofthearts.com/

Lectionary

www.spirit-net.ca

www.textweek.com

Early Christianity

www.ccel.org use the Search Engine for “The Cloud of Unknowing”

Prayer

http://www.taize.fr/en_rubrique12.html

http://www.rejesus.co.uk/site/plain_page/daily_prayer

Music

www.cyberhymnal.org you will need a sound card to use this sight.

Quotations/Stories

www.quotationspage.com

Ecumenical Christian Exploration

www.spiritseasons.com

http://www.macrinawiederkehr.com/

www.occasionalsightings.blogspot.com

www.lectionaryliturgies.blogspot.com

www.prayersfortoday.blogspot.com

http://museumbox.e2bn.org/

http://experience-awe.blogspot.com/

http://smoke-and-salt.blogspot.com/

http://neukpress.blogspot.com/

http://paintedprayerbook.com/

SUGGESTED RESOURCES - Books

Youth

http://connectedparenting.com/book/youre-ruining-my-life

Personal Reflection

“Desert Wisdom: Sayings from the Desert Fathers”, introduction by Henri J. M. Nouwen, Orbis Books, Maryknoll: New York, 1982

“Fabulous Friendship Festival”, by SARK, Three Rivers Press: New York, 2007

“Living Buddha, Living Christ”, by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 1995

“No Death, No Fear”, by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 2002

“Spiritual Notes to Myself: Essential Wisdom for the 21st Century”, by Hugh Prather, Conari Press, Berkley, 1998

“The Circle of Life”, by Joyce Rupp and Macrina Wiederkehr, Sorin Books, Notre Dame: Indiana, 2005

Prayer and Practice

“An IONA Prayer Book”, by Peter Millar, The Canterbury Press Norwich: Norwich, Norfolk, 2001

“Praying Our Goodbyes”, by Joyce Rupp, Ave Maria Press, Notre Dame: Indiana, 1988

“The Flowering of the Soul: A Book of Prayers by Women”, edited by Lucinda Vardey

“Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises”, by Anthony de Mello, Image – Doubleday: New York, 1986

Internet Resources

Daily Prayer Online by the Irish Jesuits

http://www.sacredspace.ie

The Relax Deck, The Perfect Calm Deck [Meditative Cards]

http://www.chroniclebooks.com/

Spiritual Direction with Vivian Carter

http://spiritualdirectionwithviviancarter.blogspot.com/

SmoKe and SaLt: lyrical art and dappled shadows, literary art journal

http://smokeandsalt.blogspot.com/

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SUGGESTED RESOURCES

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SUGGESTED RESOURCES

Personal Reflection

“Desert Wisdom: Sayings from the Desert Fathers” introduction by Henri J. M. Nouwen, Orbis Books, Maryknoll: New York, 1982

“Fabulous Friendship Festival” by SARK, Three Rivers Press: New York, 2007

“Living Buddha, Living Christ” by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 1995

“No Death, No Fear” by Thich Nhat Hanh, Riverhead Books: New York, 2002

“Spiritual Notes to Myself: Essential Wisdom for the 21st Century” by Hugh Prather, Conari Press, Berkley, 1998

“The Circle of Life” by Joyce Rupp and Macrina Wiederkehr, Sorin Books, Notre Dame: Indiana, 2005

Prayer and Practice

“An IONA Prayer Book” by Peter Millar, The Canterbury Press Norwich: Norwich, Norfolk, 2001

“Praying Our Goodbyes” by Joyce Rupp, Ave Maria Press, Notre Dame: Indiana, 1988

“The Flowering of the Soul: A Book of Prayers by Women” edited by Lucinda Vardey

“Wellsprings: A Book of Spiritual Exercises” by Anthony de Mello, Image – Doubleday: New York, 1986

Internet Resources

Daily Prayer Online by the Irish Jesuits

http://www.sacredspace.ie

The Relax Deck, The Perfect Calm Deck [Meditative Cards]

http://www.chroniclebooks.com/

Spiritual Direction with Vivian Carter

http://spiritualdirectionwithviviancarter.blogspot.com/

SmoKe and SaLt: lyrical art and dappled shadows, literary art journal

http://smokeandsalt.blogspot.com/

Tuliptree and Saga ~ Home-Bath-Garden Shop, 309 Main Street North, Markham

http://www.tuliptreesaga.com/index.html

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We are cups, constantly and quietly being filled. The trick is knowing how to tip ourselves over and let the beautiful stuff out.

Ray Bradbury

2009-12-07T13:24:00.000-08:00

SOUL SISTERS DECEMBER DINNER '09

Inger

Trish

Joanne

and Kathleen

Many, Many Blessings

SOUL SISTERS DINNER DECEMBER 2009

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To be yourself

in a world

that is constantly trying

to make you something else

is the greatest accomplishment.

Ralph Waldo Emerson

2009-11-29T11:29:00.000-08:00

As you head into a new year ask yourself,

Where will you go?

Who will go with you?

How will you dream?

What must you let go of?

What will you celebrate?

What gifts will you share?

Who will you be?

2009-10-19T10:00:00.000-07:00

come to your senses!

FIVE DAYS ~ FIVE SENSES WORKSHOP

Finding the Stillness to

Reflect, Meditate and

Commune with the Sacred

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2009-10-19T09:42:00.000-07:00

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2009-10-18T20:25:00.000-07:00

SOUL SANCTUARY Seminars FALL '09

2009-08-06T10:53:00.000-07:00

Soul Sanctuary

FALL ’09 WORKSHOP

Using Sue Monk Kidd's book, "The Secret Life of Bees" we will explore these themes:

HOME / PRAYER WALL

NAMES / LABELS

BEES / FEMALE IMAGES OF GOD

PRISON / FREEDOM

MOTHERHOOD / MENTORING

COURAGE /COMPASSION

What

Using the principles of reflection, exploration, visioning, Intention, challenging, listening, recognition and ritual celebration participants will examine and explore these topics.

When

Beginning October 8, 2009
Thursday evenings
From 7:30 - 9:30PM

Where

Unionville, at Fred Varley and Carlton

How

This six-part series of topics encourages participants to explore their own life story and journey through hands-on exercises and personal reflection. Attendees will be offered dynamic guided discussions, using experiential exercises.

Fee

$200.00 per person for this six-week (12 HOURS) series.

TO REGISTER:

Email: thevicar@rogers.com for more information.

Thank you!

Vivian Carter BFA, M. Div, Dip. Th.

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DEADLINE FOR SMOKE AND SALT - FALL '09 ISSUE - August 15, 2009

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Where does YOUR soul go to when it is in the "wilderness"? What does the wilderness - feel like, look like and sound like; in poetry, prose, art and photography, for you?

The email deadline for the "SmoKe and SaLt" Fall '09 Issue: "Wilderness", is August 15, 2009.

We regret that we cannot return your submission. Please send ONLY COPIES of your artwork.

If you are submitting digital photos (of your artwork or your photography) please make sure you have the highest resolution of digital photo so that the reproduction in the issue does justice to your work.

If your submission is accepted you will be notified by email on - or before - September 8, 2009.

Thank you very much for your interest.

Lilies and Roses

2009-04-22T14:50:00.001-07:00

How generous you are, Earth,

and how strong is your yearning for your children

lost between that which they have attained and that which they could not obtain.

We clamor and you smile; we flit but you stay!

We extract your elements to make cannons and bombs,

but out of our elements you create lilies and roses.

Kahlil Gibran

You Need One

2009-04-09T09:45:00.000-07:00

Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family: Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one.

Jane Howard

Soul Sanctuary Seminars

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Participants have the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of their purpose and place in the world and glimpse into the universe of their own souls.

These seminars encourage participants to explore their own life story and journey through hands-on exercises and personal reflection. Attendees will be offered dynamic guided discussions, using multi-media presentations and experiential exercises.

About the Presenter

Vivian Carter, BFA, M. DIV., Dip. Th., is a meditative writer, artist, spiritual guide, family coach and retired minister. Her academic training and professional experience have uniquely equipped her to lead and guide those seeking a deeper and richer experience of life.

Vivian is a well-loved guide and presenter whose practical ideas, wealth of experience and ability to dramatize her topic make her presentations both valuable and enjoyable.

As Vivian served as an associate minister for 4 years, she discovered a broad interest in her group study presentations, retreats and facilitated encounters on spirituality and the arts. Her blogsite, “ANAM CARA” drew an international audience. “The Soul Sanctuary” Series is a response to requests for her presentations in a more informal setting.

Vivian is currently working on a book exploring the redemptive nature of love. She publishes a theological literary art journal called, “SmoKe and SaLt: Lyrical Art and Dappled Shadows”. Vivian and her husband have been happily married for 24 years and have two daughters.

What People are Saying

Individual Clients
I had the privilege of Vivian’s counsel for three years. In that time I learned courage and came to understand the power of love to heal and to redeem. Vivian taught me some practical relational tools and changed the way I saw my life. I am no longer afraid. Attending the retreat with Vivian was a privilege; there, I learned to look slowly and deeply at life and therein found the divine, I learned a powerful truth: that the world is drenched in beauty and every being in it is of inestimable value. I learned to love recklessly and without fear. Vivian, I can never thank you enough for the beautiful change in our family.
KB

Many thanks for your own wisdom and
encouragement to this pilgrim.
MA

Thank you so much for your wise words. I promise myself that each day I will do something for me that helps to increase my ability to listen and discern.
RVC

Attendees of Workshop Series
I just wanted to thank you so much for running this. I wouldn’t have wanted to miss it for the world. [This] has really helped me realize that I can capture a moment. And I have you to thank! You are one of those special people.
IGP

From the ANAM CARA Spirituality Group
Our little group is so blessed. I feel so privileged to be a part of such an intelligent, caring, giving circle of friends.
SM

From the ANAM CARA blogspot
Vivian, thank you for your fine work and sharing.
RM

Experience Awe

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